Online Dating Tips Every Introvert Should Know

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Meeting and getting comfortable with new people as an introvert may sometimes feel like a punishment. What’s worse than letting total strangers invade your comfort zone right? Now add the pressure of getting it right with romantic relationships, and you are just about ready to explode. It’s for these reasons that there is probably no other group out there which benefits from online dating as much as the more reserved.

However, these guys and gals still have the hardest time making use of the super convenient platforms. If you are an introvert and you are stuck in this position, here are a few tips that will come in handy. That way your online dating experience will be just as rewarding as anyone else’s.

Eight online dating tips for introverts

1. It doesn’t get any easier than this

It doesn’t matter whether you are painfully shy or you enjoy your own solitary company way too much. Online dating is as easy as it will get for you as an introvert. There is a sense of safety that the arrangement provides. That allows you to get to know different people without stepping too far out of your comfort zone.

2. Do not take on too many interests at once

With online dating one of the greatest challenges you will have to deal with is having too many options. Yep, you read that right. You are probably wondering to yourself how it is even remotely possible to have too many interests and suitors. The more, the merrier right? Wrong. If you are an introvert, the last thing you want to do is to get overwhelmed by the number of people you are talking to.

3. You do not owe anyone anything

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being shy or withdrawn or whatever other forms your introvert nature takes. However, this does not mean that people get to walk all over you or use you in any way when it comes to online dating. Remember how easy it is to turn down that party invitation in real life? Well, use the same zeal to turn down anyone you do not feel you vibe with. They will get over it.

4. It takes two to tango

Online dating is about mutual effort. Being an introvert does not excuse you from making any effort. Remember that for every one person you are interested in there are several more people also shooting for it. You, therefore, cannot afford to bring anything other than you’re A game. Forgive the overuse of sports metaphors, but you get the point. So pick up your phone, text first and work with the person to keep the conversation flowing.

5. Anyone can make the first move

This fun little tip applies mainly to female introverts interested in online dating. Gone are the days when damsels had to wait for dashing gents to make the first move. That applies even to you and your more reserved personality. Making the first move is a great way to be a part of this new age of love and also to get over some of your reservations. It will rip you out of your comfort zone and drag you into a whole new world, and it will be worth it.

6. There are sites ideal for introverted personalities

Not all online dating websites are the same. Some are perfect for outgoing, bubbly personalities while others are built to accommodate introverts just like you. The tip here is to find these sites and make them your priority if you are serious about finding love online.

7. Have an idea of exactly what you want

With so many fish in the virtual sea, you will need some help narrowing things down. It doesn’t hurt to have a list of things or tips you are looking for. Now, this doesn’t mean that you turn into a stereotypical rom-com protagonist with an actual list of must-have traits. Not at all. However, if you feel that this is what you need to do then, by all means, go for it.

8. Be honest with yourself; and about yourself

Being an introvert is not a disease. It is not something to be ashamed of. And it is most definitely something you need to change to find love. Therefore, when it comes to online dating ensure that you are as authentic as you possibly can be. It is also important to inform people you are interested in of your introverted disposition. That will allow them to get a better idea of what to expect while also giving them a chance to run while it is still early.

Single's Space is a dating blog created by Jenny and it covers topics like love, relationships, online dating, international dating, and more. We know that finding the right man or woman is not easy, so we wanted to create an online space that collects all the tips and advice you should know to succeed in your love life.