Sugar, spice and
Latina women are some of the most beautiful in the world. It is not just about the luscious locks, flawless skin and seductive curves but also in their brilliant minds and beautiful hearts. So if you land yourself one of these beauties, then you better believe that you have struck relationship gold. However, it takes a special kind of man to date a Latina woman successfully. If you have no idea where to start then keep reading and let us enlighten you.
Dos and Don’ts of
dating South American chicas
You’ve probably heard it all from the infamous feisty attitudes to stereotypes on their passion and sensuality. Some of these are true, and some aren’t. For you to get and keep a South American girl you need to understand the difference. With these ten dating tips, you will become an expert of sorts when it comes to dating these women. Without further ado, here is what you need to know.
Do not call them ‘feisty’
South American women are famed for being some
of the most outgoing, gutsy and aggressive women out there. For the most part, this stereotype is accurate. However,
nothing puts off a Latina woman faster than being called feisty or told off about her attitude. So don’t do it; it is
not as flattering as you think it is.
Be confident; but not cocky
These women are strong, independent and know
what they want. If you want to play ball,
you will have to put your big boy pants and ooze as much machismo as you can.
However, there is a fine line between attractive confidence and cockiness and
crossing it will lose you points.
Do not come on too strong sexually
There is this notion that Latina women are highly sexual. What many people forget is that the region has a strong religious influence. That means that the girls here have more virtue and value than they are given credit for. So no, you are probably not getting invited up for a nightcap and second dessert any time soon.
Engage them on an intellectual level
If you even for a second thought that beauty is all Latinas bring to the
table then you are mistaken. These women are very intelligent, and you might want to lead with that if you
want to stand out. Treat her like the brilliant human being she is, and you will get further than guys treating
them like airheads.
Don’t expect her to mommy you
Latina women are generally very kind and nurturing. However, this doesn’t mean you have found a chef and laundry person for free just because you are dating one. It’s the 21st century my friend; wake up and smell the coffee.
Be a gentleman
The fastest way to a South American woman’s heart
is through respect. Treat her like a lady, and
you have a shot at winning her over. Being a gentleman is, of course, highly
dependent on you as an individual or the setting. It could be anything from
being tasteful with your compliments to
offering to pay for dinner. Just be nice.
Don’t go in with a hero complex
Latina women are anything but damsels in
distress. So you might want to leave your superhero cape back home. The hero
complex stems from the stereotypical belief that when these women date foreigners, they are doing it for help either
financial or otherwise. That only applies
to a small fraction of the women you will meet so it is a line of thought you
might want to ditch.
Dial it down a notch with the stereotypical references
You are not the first person to ask her whether
she likes nachos, whether she can dance or if she is Catholic. You might think it is a nice icebreaker, but they are tired of hearing it. So, maybe
don’t bring it up. Cool. Thanks.
Don’t assume that all Latinas are the same
South America is one of the most diverse
regions in the world. Drawing physical and cultural influence from all other
continents, the women are also pretty diverse. Assuming they are all the same,
speak the same, look or even act the same is quite frankly very annoying to
Show some interest in the culture
Finally, if you want your relationship with
your Latina beauty to work, you will have
to show genuine curiosity in her culture. Make an effort to learn about where
she is from and what things are like there. If you are up to the task, you should also consider learning the
Be bold and find love; the Latina way
Now that you know how to date a Latino woman you have no excuse not to try. Just remember to be confident, respectful and up for fun. If you apply these three principles and the ten foolproof tips highlighted you should have your South American happy ending in no time.