Princess Charming; where art thou?
There comes a time in every man’s life where finding a good woman becomes the number one priority.
Maybe you’re a twenty-something-year-old who simply cannot wait to have a happily ever after?
Or maybe you’re in your fifties looking for someone special to renew your faith in love after one too many heartbreaks?
Whatever the case, you deserve love, and we will help you find it.
Here are 7 tips that will get you closer to the woman of your dreams.
How to find a good woman
Prince Charming, is that you? It better be!
First thing’s first, you have to make sure that you are actually a good man before you go looking for a good woman to be with. If you still have a ton of baggage and issues to work on, you will only pull her down. So deal with your past demons and work hard to make yourself a catch – you’ll only do yourself a favor!
Figure out what a good woman means to you
Finding a good woman is super relative. It could be that for you, a good woman is a traditional wife who is willing to stay at home and do all the chores. Or maybe your ideal babe is a real wild card who is unapologetically herself and lives for adventure and thrill. Maybe you would even want to pick up a married woman.
Do not allow yourself to be confined to only one idea of what is good. This will only frustrate you during your search if it truly isn’t what your heart wants.
Do not rush anything – she’s not going anywhere
It is important that you constantly remind yourself that there is no timer on this journey. You can take as much time as you need to ensure that you actually find a good woman. Do not settle out of impatience or frustration!
And when you do find a good woman, do not rush it either. Take your time and make sure that you have a great foundation for a strong and lasting relationship.
Take it slow with the boom boom time
Yeah, we just talked about taking it slow, but this point is too heavy to be lumped in with generally taking your foot off the relationship accelerator.
Physical intimacy has the power to either build or destroy a relationship. It is all about the timing. If you are serious about building something strong and long-term, it’s probably not going to be a good idea to have one-night stands and casual flings.
Take your time to build an actual bond so that when you do actually get to that point of the relationship, the sex becomes the icing on your relationship flavored cake.
Right swipe here, left swipe there
The definition and rules on how to find a good woman has changed over the years with where to meet these women is one of the biggest changes. These days, you can actually find a lot of decent people on the many online dating sites there are. All you have to do is find the right service and you should find more than a few good apples in the bunch.
Ditch your comfort zone and live a little
So, how to meet a nice woman?
Well, you first need to understand that trying the same old methods that have obviously failed is a waste of time. Outside your little safety circle is where all the magic happens. So go for that party or vacation with friends or that road trip. You definitely have better chances meeting your woman out there than inside your living room.
Escape from the “type” trap
If you are one of those guys whose exes are basically carbon copies of each other then you have a lot to work on. Let go of the notion that some women are more attractive than others and just let romantic chemistry take its course.
You might be surprised that those brunettes or tall girls you dismissed actually have everything you ever wanted. Who knows, it might even be that close friend of yours you never gave a second thought because she wasn’t conventionally your type.
With all these tips and tricks, you have everything you need to go on your quest to find the damsel of your destiny. Ok, maybe that is a bit too corny, but the point is this:
It is really not that hard to find the right woman. You just have to be in the right head space, be patient, have and open mind and be ready to actively work for love. In the end, it will all be worth it because you will have someone to go on this adventure called life with.